Are you hoping that I’m over the Farmer and you don’t have to read about him anymore?

I check the farmer’s blog obsessively for any updates, which takes a lot of energy partially because he never writes on it but mostly because I have to work really hard at all the mental gymnastics  I use to  justify to myself what I’m even doing on there in the first place. But now I know. I was looking for evidence that he thinks about me as much as I think  about  him. I wonder all the time – does he miss me when he’s sorting pigs for market? I did that with him. And I miss doing that with...
Tags: Careers, Job Hunt

Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships

Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink, and Relationships $10 Kindle/%15 physical from Amazon I wasn’t intending to read Tongue Tied initially. I was previously unfamiliar with Stella Harriss (who I now know is an experienced sex educator and coach as well as an erotica writer) and, perhaps more importantly, felt pretty familiar with communicating about sex. I’ve frequently read about the topic. I’ve argued that we need to talk more about sex and do it in a healthy way that isn...
Tags: Reviews, Amazon, Books, College, Sex, Communication, Reddit, Stella, Kink, HARRIS, Harriss, Stella Harris, Stella Hariss, Tongue Tied, Stella Harriss

Sunday Firesides: Don’t Borrow an Ego

If you have a dispute with your landlord, is the first thing you do to call Mom and Dad for advice? Whenever a question crosses your mind, do you immediately type it into Google? When your girlfriend does something to make you mad, do you deal with it by texting a friend? Psychologists would describe these behaviors as “borrowing an ego.” (Here “ego” refers not to overweening pride, but to the part of the psyche that plans, decides, regulates impulses, and gives you a sense of self.) When you ...
Tags: Google, Life, Mom, Dad, A Man's Life, Meg Jay, Sunday Firesides

Rati Framroze Cooper: In Memorarium

On Friday March 8, 2019 Rati Framroze Cooper passed away in Lahore, Pakistan. It may be coincidence or not, that one of the most amazing women educators of the Indian sub-continent, passed away on International Women’s Day. I had the opportunity to meet Rati Aunty only for a few days on my trip to Lahore in January 2016. I was introduced to her and her sister Perin Aunty, through several contacts and I first met up with them in the lobby of the Avari Lahore. Rati Aunty has to have been the most...
Tags: Usa, New York, London, NYC, Life, India, Pakistan, Cooper, LAHORE, LAHORE Pakistan, Marlowe, Parsi, British Council, Madam, Individuals, Wadia

The Strange Concepts of 'Rebel' and 'Feminism' in Fragrance Nowadays

Back in the 1990's, androgyny, gender issues, LGBTQ issues and body positivity were new and not discussed frequently in media, let alone in fragrance circles. Yet, Calvin Klein decided to go beyond everyone else and launched CK One. It may have not been the first unisex fragrance in the market, but the communication and advertising was groundbreaking, not showing simply beautiful models going by ... Read full article: The Strange Concepts of 'Rebel' and 'Feminism' in Fragrance Nowadays from Fr...
Tags: Fashion, Calvin Klein, Fragrantica Perfumes

I'm Truly Haunted by How Much I Love Lupita Nyongo's Hair at the Us Premiere

The mystery surrounding Jordan Peele's Us has now crept its way into Lupita Nyong'o's red carpet style. As a star of the film, the 36-year-old actress made an appearance at the movie's SXSW premiere on March 8, and her look was hauntingly brilliant. Nyong'o, known for her bold beauty decisions, wore sectioning clips throughout her hair. Yep, the ones typically used when you sit in the salon chair. According to Variety, there was a very specific message behind this beauty choice. "This film is...
Tags: Beauty, Hair, Sxsw, Lupita Nyong'o, Lupita Nyongo, Red Carpet, Variety, Lupita Nyong, Nyong, Jordan Peele, Celebrity Hair, Snoop Doggy Dogg

The Entire U.S. Women’s Soccer Team Sued The Soccer Federation For Gender Discrimination

With three World Cup titles and four Olympic Gold medals, the U.S. Women’s National Soccer team is the most-decorated team in international women’s soccer.Now, as they gear up to defend their 2015 World Cup title, all 28 members of the current roster are participating in a lawsuit against the U.S. Soccer Federation.The lawsuit alleges the team has been subject to gender discrimination that manifests in conditions that are inferior to the men’s team, despite the fact that the women’s team has a ...
Tags: Fashion, Music, Australia, Time, United States, New York Times, Usa Today, Abc News, Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, Alex Morgan, U S Soccer, U S Soccer Federation, Jeffrey Kessler, Carlos Cordeiro, Entire U S Women 's Soccer Team, U S Women 's National Soccer

Wall Street’s new dress code raises question: What to wear?

“Business casual” has become so accepted that even the most buttoned-up symbol of Wall Street power — Goldman Sachs — has surrendered to it. So, what constitutes acceptable professional attire these days?
Tags: Business, News, Lifestyle, Nation, Goldman Sachs

"Pastel Plus" Is the Nail-Color Trend That Will Be Huge This Spring

Somewhere across the hallway, behind closed doors at Runway magazine, Miranda Priestly would be saying: "Pastels for Spring? Groundbreaking." But save the pursing of your lip, would you, because this season's biggest nail-color trend isn't like all the others you've seen before. It's pastel color - with a twist. "The polishes for Spring are not so predictable - we'll be seeing a lot of the not-so-basic pastels," said Essie celebrity manicurist Michelle Saunders. These shades, she explained, each...
Tags: Beauty, Nails, Nail Polish, Runway, Essie, Nail Trends, Beauty Trends, Beauty Interview, Michelle Saunders

Leaks In Jussie Smollett Case Under Investigation By Chicago Police

The constant barrage of information about Jussie Smollett's alleged attack – mostly from anonymous sources – has left many of us feeling confused and overwhelmed over the last few weeks. The Chicago Police Department says “same,” and has now opened an internal investigation, Deadline reports.“I would like to point out that a lot of the information out there was inaccurate and there were numerous agencies involved in this investigation,” Sgt. Rocco Alioto told the publication on Friday, noting t...
Tags: Fashion, Music, Chicago Police, Jussie Smollett, Chicago Police Department, Gayle King, Smollett, Luke Perry, Rocco Alioto, Abimbola Osundairo, Olabinjo Osundairo, Smollet, Girlfriends Riverdale Star Beverly Hills

Map Shows All the Places Eagles Visit in a Year and People Are Guessing Why They Avoided the Sea

After finding an eagle on his walk a young man made a truly incredible discovery . . .
Tags: Life, Gallery, Science & Nature, Gallery. Trending

A Week In Portland, OR, On A $60,000 Salary

Welcome toMoney Diaries , where we're tackling what might be the last taboo facing modern working women: money. We're asking millennials how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period — and we're tracking every last dollar.Today: a marketing assistant working in management consulting who makes $60,000 per year and spends some of her money this week on bao buns.Occupation: Marketing AssistantIndustry: Management ConsultingAge: 25Location: Portland, ORSalary: $60,000Paycheck Amo...
Tags: Facebook, Fashion, Music, Florida, Hbo, Portland, Starbucks, Phoenix, Petco, Amazon Thank, Orangetheory, Money Diaries, Keri Danielski

Lucy on poppers? New docuseries reveals her hidden drug use

A new documentary reveals that the TV icon used poppers for years before her death.
Tags: Feature, Entertainment, Lifestyle, Poppers, Lucy, Ad Friendly, Queerty, Lucille Ball, I Love Lucy

Captain Marvel Broke A Glass Ceiling You Can’t See Just By Watching The Movie

Captain Marvel is shattering glass ceilings one after another. As Brie Larson takes to the skies to protect Earth from malicious alien warfare as the Marvel Cinematic Universe’s first-ever woman superhero in Captain Marvel, she will be doing so scored by the music of Pinar Toprak — the Marvel Cinematic Universe’s first-ever female composer.Toprak tailored a strong resume for this gig: among other credits, she assisted on Danny Elfman’s score for Justice League and worked on music for the first ...
Tags: Fashion, Music, Hollywood, Syfy, Justice League, Vulture, Marvel Studios, Marvel Cinematic Universe, Brie Larson, Moore, Danny Elfman, Toprak, USC Annenberg Inclusion Initiative, Pinar Toprak

Azzaro Wanted Girl

The house of Azzaro launched the masculine fougere fragrance Wanted, which was created by Fabrice Pellegrin in 2016, inspired by the hedonistic way of life of Loris Azzare during the 1970s. In 2019, Azzaro presents Azzaro Wanted Girl - a female equivalent of this perfume.   Azzaro imagined this "brilliant" Eau de Parfum as the untameable beauty that comes from inside, filled with charm. The fr... Read full article: Azzaro Wanted Girl from Fragrantica Perfumes and Colognes Magazine.
Tags: Fashion, Fragrantica Perfumes, Azzaro, Eau de Parfum, Fabrice Pellegrin, Loris Azzare

Rejoice! Cricket 19 is coming out on PC, PS4, Xbox One and Nintendo Switch and player likenesses are still slightly funny

A year or so ago, we wrote about the Ashes Cricket videogame and the disappointingly good player likenesses seen in the screenshots. This then inspired us to do a nostalgic piece about cricket computer game graphics through the ages. As we said in that second piece, it’s pretty clear that the golden age of cricket videogame graphics is behind us. We’ve got some good news though. The graphics for Cricket 19, which comes out this summer, are just about wonky enough to still be...
Tags: England, Sex, US, Xbox 360, Nintendo, Wii, Joe Root, Jimmy Anderson, Ps3, England cricket news, Australia Cricket News, PS2, Cricket computer games, Previews And Downloads, Christopher Moltisanti, Joe Curran

Spring's Biggest Makeup Trends Will Take You Out Of Your Comfort Zone

There's plenty to look forward to when the first days of spring roll around. You get to put away those oversized coats and take out the cute leather jacket that's been collecting dust. Hat hair? See ya next year — and you'll finally be able to order a large cold brew without feeling like you're being judged by the barista.But that's not all: When it comes to our makeup looks, there's something about warmer weather that takes our creative energy to a whole new level. Whether it's the first flowe...
Tags: Fashion, Music, Rihanna, Paris Hilton, Chanel, Sephora, Charlotte, Oscar de la Renta, Maybelline, Boynton, JO Baker, L Oreal, Kylie Cosmetics, Tom Pecheux, Katie Jane Hughes, Lucy Boynton

I Am Not Your Tinder Fantasy

It’s great to spice up your relationship! But queers don’t exist for your pleasure.
Tags: News, Sex, Online Dating, Women and Girls, Tinder (Mobile App

Sky Vargas on showing a “cute amount of skin” at the gym and getting plenty of zzz’s

We talk the best protein bar, beauty as art, and how cranking up the bass can help with a workout.
Tags: Lifestyle, Ad Friendly, Queerty, Prepared, Sky Vargas

I used condoms from age 20. At 50, here’s why I’m stopping now.

Marcus and I had been seeing each other for about six months when I finally ended things. It wasn’t his looks, personality, or body—hell, no, on all three counts—it was because I had made the conscious decision to stop wearing condoms with men who were more than just a quick fix.
Tags: Lifestyle, Marcus, Ad Friendly, Queerty, Condoms, Prep, Prepared

16 Spring Cleaning Products To Go Green At Home With In 2019

Practicing self-care is the millennial version of the old adage, "treat your body as a temple." But what about our literal temples? If you're someone who already strives to live an all-natural life when it comes to pesticide-free food and non-synthetic skincare, then making an effort to use greener home cleaning products seems like the sensible next step.With winter finally coming to an end, it's time to stock up on a supply of eco-friendly spring cleaning formulas that will benefit your living...
Tags: Amazon, Fashion, Music, Walmart, Epa, Wayfair, Better Life, Fannie, Walmart Pick, EPA Safer Choice, Amazon Green Works, Clorox Green Works Glass Surface Cleaner, Better Life Tub Tile Cleaner, Amazon Seventh Generation, Amazon Aunt Fannie, Grove Collaborative Ecover

Wife stunned to find husband in gay x-rated video, he blames the whole thing on meth

"I clicked on a random video and it was definitely him. His face was fully visible."
Tags: Marriage, Cheating, Life, Lifestyle, Infidelity, Reddit, Bisexual, Ad Friendly, Queerty

Rant & Rave: Take parking placard down before driving

Readers rant about disabled placards while driving, rave about polite cyclists
Tags: News, Life, Lifestyle

Saying ‘I do’ or ‘I don’t’ to changing wedding etiquette

Just roll with it, writes Carolyn Hax. When that’s not an option, say no.
Tags: News, Life, Carolyn Hax

Billionaire Diamond Trader Dies During Surgery For Penis Enlargement

'He always focused on his appearance and how others perceived him'
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