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Why Did Scorpio Cut You Off?

There is a good discussion going here – Scorpio Dead Zone, which I really should have called the Scorpio Kill Zone. I’ve written about Scorpio amputating people over the years (search). Typically the person who is cut off is left … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Scorpio, Astrology, Relating, 8th-house, Scorpio Dead Zone


The Loveless, Causing Confusion And Torment

I read a poem from the 1800’s that challenged me to think. The poem was about a man who loves a woman who does not love him because she can’t love him. She can’t love because it’s herself whom she … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Art, Love, Astrology, Relating, Venus-Pluto


Building Up Hate

Nobody wants to be seen as “hateful”, especially in this era.  You might say you have no hate in your heart. You may feel the people around you do? You have no hate, you have no hate, you have no … Read More...
Tags: Anger, Astrology, Discuss, Relating


Venus And Mars In Synastry

A client was digging for information. He asked me about the importance of Venus and Mars in relationships. It was an interesting question, I’d not been asked before. Venus in a natal chart will show what you’re attracted to. It … Read More...
Tags: Mars, Venus, Astrology, Relating, Synastry


If A Man Says He Doesn’t Want To Marry, Does He Mean It?

I’m acquainted with a man in his fifties; he does not want to marry again.  He’s been dating a gal for a couple of years. They’re exclusive. The man has been candid with  the woman from day one. He does … Read More...
Tags: Commitment, Venus, Astrology, Real Life, Discuss, Relating


Why Do Some People Bring Out the Worst in Each Other?

We often talk about people bringing out the best or the worst in us, but have you ever wondered why that happens? Synastry, which is the interaction of two charts, often has the answer. One of the interesting things about … Read More...
Tags: Astrology, Real Life, Relating, Synastry, Mom and Dad


Unrequited Love – Why Pine Over Someone Disinterested In You?

Why do people continue to pursue or obsess over someone who has rejected them? I’ve seen people get caught in situations like this for years. There seems to be a number of reasons why. They just can’t believe that the … Read More...
Tags: Advice, Astrology, Obsession, Relating


How Managers Can Deal With Being Promoted

Everything changes when you get promoted. Do you know how to handle it? Image Credit: U.S. Army Corps of Engineers Europe District Getting promoted is what every manager wants. With you new position comes more money, more responsibility, better benefits, and perhaps even elevated status. However, it turns out that there is a downside to this type of career advancement. You may now be asking yourself “where did all of my friends go?” Likewise, now when you walk into a room, conversat...
Tags: Career, Friends, Trust, Careers, Training, Benefits, Skills, Perks, Self-confidence, Promotion, Satisfaction, Distance, Jim Anderson, Relating, Social Dynamics, Status


Living With Someone With Mars in The 4th House

When I see Mars in the 4th house of a natal chart, I think of family fights and fire in the belly.  It’s not the greatest place for Mars because the home and family are supposed to be a place … Read More...
Tags: Mars, Astrology, Real Life, Relating, Mars in 4th, Mars-in-cancer


Scorpio Moon, Lack of Trust, Paranoia, Obsession

The moon falls in Scorpio. Nevertheless. I have a great affinity and affection for these intense types. I work with then, pretty much every day. I’m also married to a man with his moon in Scorpio. People with the moon … Read More...
Tags: Astrology, Obsession, Real Life, Relating, moon-in-Scorpio, Scorpio Moon Lack of Trust Paranoia Obsession, Scorpio People


Synastry: What If Love Natures Are Mismatched?

What happens when two people love each other but their love natures are mismatched? Can something like this be resolved?  2.5 minute video. … Read More...
Tags: Videos, Love, Astrology, Relating, Synastry


Hook-up Culture – Sex vs Commitment

Sex is  easy to find these days. Commitment is almost impossible to find. My kids are bucking this trend. I’m glad because I think it’s a best path to a happy life. Basically, you invest in someone and they in … Read More...
Tags: Sex, Astrology, Relating, Uranus in Taurus


Are Women More Vicious Than Men?

My husband is a man’s man. He’s an alpha male who has spent his entire life working in male dominated professions like the military, machining and trucking.  He’s got a lot of insight into the male psyche. He once told … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Men, Mars, Astrology, Relating


Weird Encounters With Uranus In 7th House

I have Uranus in the 7th house. I tend to meet eccentric people who are often highly intelligent. Being aware of this via astrology, I know how to deal with them. That’s my spine. One of these weirdos fixed that … Read More...
Tags: House, Astrology, Real Life, Relating, Uranus in 7th, Uranus transit 7th


The 7th House And Projection In Relationships

If you’re interested in love and relationships, it’s imperative you come to understand your 7th house. I project my 7th house and guess what? So do you! There were a lot of questions in the comments. I’ve started to address … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Videos, House, Astrology, Real Life, Projection, Relating, Uranus in 7th, 7th-house, Venus-in-7th


What’s Good About Your Bad Childhood?

Sometimes people find and comment on old posts which remain relevant. This post was born of this: I Want To Pick Your Brain.  I had more to say about it!  A gal left a comment this morning. Ironically, I had … Read More...
Tags: Abuse, Astrology, Uranus, Discuss, Relating, 8th-house


What If It’s Your Responsibility?

With all this action in Capricorn, I’m running into certain themes in my life as well as the lives of friends, family or clients. Sometimes, it’s your responsibility to do something.  Today’s newsletter as related. People no longer feel motivated to … Read More...
Tags: Capricorn, Astrology, Real Life, Relating, Pluto-in-Capricorn, Saturn in Capricorn


Will Pluto Transiting My 7th House Destroy My Marriage?

I was writing for a gal who was wondering if Pluto transiting her 7th house would destroy her partnership. I don’t think this is case. I covered a few different scenarios, but this is one struck me as something I … Read More...
Tags: Marriage, Love, Pluto, Astrology, Relating, Venus-Pluto, Pluto transit 7th, House Destroy My Marriage


Trouble Ending Relationships?

I was talking to a gal about the fact she does not seem to have the ability to leave a relationship. The men have to leave her, typically on their own volition though it would be hard to say that … Read More...
Tags: Venus, Astrology, Discuss, Relating


Are Your Snap Judgments Of Others Reliable?

Snap Judgment – a judgment formed on the instant without deliberation. (free dictionary) I try get a hack on people right away and hope they do the same when they’re dealing with me. This is necessary when working as an … Read More...
Tags: Consulting, Astrology, Discuss, Relating


Do You Feed On Angst & Risk-Taking?

Some people don’t realize they’re living in a house of cards. They may be involved in some high-risk affair. The kind of thing where most would realize, it’s inevitable they’ll be caught.  But they think the situation is stable! Some … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Astrology, Relating


Can You Be Addicted To Failure?

kr made an interesting comment on an old forum post: “Some people get more attention for their insistent failures than they would for a minor or moderate success — so they stick with the thing they get the most attention … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Failure, Addiction, Astrology, Real Life, Relating


Libra: Focus On The Other Person’s Life & You’ll Squander Your Own

I wrote this when Saturn was transiting Libra, circa 2011. I thought it might be off-putting to some, but others desperately wanted these things defined because they desperately wanted to overcome their problems in relationships.  Saturn in Capricorn is squaring Libra. … Read More...
Tags: Saturn, Libra, Capricorn, Astrology, Relating, Venus-Saturn, Saturn in Libra


Am I Going To End Up Alone?

Today, I’m going to talk to a gal I have known for nearly twenty years.  Yes! She’s been around this blog, and it’s predecessor, since nearly day one.  She has a new man. Thinking about talking to her, I feel … Read More...
Tags: Astrology, Relating


Want a Happy Relationship? Remove Pressure!

One pattern I see constellate over and over in consultations has to do with pressure. Invariably, one person will want something from the other, whether it be more sex, affection, conversation, whatever. And in order to get that, they push. … Read More...
Tags: Astrology, Relating


Astrology Of Love and Money and Satisfaction

Venus rules love and money. Venus in your chart show how you feel about these things, as well your experiences in these realms. I made some videos on the concept of what I call “currency” when it comes to love. … Read More...
Tags: Money, Love, Venus, Astrology, Real Life, Relating


Pluto In Capricorn: Control Your Pathology!

I was talking to a gal about a pattern in her relationships. She had good understanding of the dynamic: “He does this, then I do that and then he does this and then this happens…” She concluded that nothing could … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Advice, Capricorn, Astrology, Real Life, Relating, Pluto-in-Capricorn, 8th-house


Mercury Retrograde in Cancer: June 18th – July 12th, 2020 – Fight

Mercury will turn retrograde at 14 degrees Cancer on June 18th.  This retrograde period should be really interesting, not necessarily in a good way.  I’m sorry to say that but I’ll explain. When Mercury turns retrograde it will avoid or rather, … Read More...
Tags: Astrology, Relating


Is Your Defense Mechanism Costing You Success & Happiness?

It’s getting intense. The Jupiter, Saturn, Pluto conjunction in Capricorn will create profound pressure in your life. This goes for everyone, but is you have planets or angles at the late degrees of the Cardinal signs, I’m sure you’re already … Read More...
Tags: Psychology, Defense, Capricorn, Astrology, Real Life, Relating


Clarifying Toxic Relationships

My recent post, Saturn in Aquarius and Toxic Relationships, got a lot of discussion going. This is great! But it became clear that I need to clarify my position. I am not in favor of holding on to terrible relationships! … Read More...
Tags: Advice, Astrology, Relating